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The Battle

THE BATTLE HAS ONLY EVER BEEN YOU AGAINST YOU!

Your thoughts create your reality. The way you think, the way you behave, the way you perceive to things, the way you deliver, all have to with shaping your reality and your future.

How many times have you actually found yourself as a victim to something or to be precise, at the time of crisis, how many times have you actually been honest to yourself and spoke the truth without having a constant battle between your mind and heart? Have you felt the dominance of those negative thoughts powering over your thought process? If yes, then this blog post is definitely for you.

I had always considered myself as the victim of an unloved destiny and you know why? I came from a family that didn’t have a lot of money and I always had to think of my own ways to make it. I do appreciate the fact that they have given me everything I have always wanted but seen the other people around me getting all those things getting handed over to them actually created a battle within me. Did I win? Did I learn? And, the answer to this is a big yes!

PRACTICAL APPROACH TOWARDS THE BATTLE!

Nothing in this world stands still –  it either grows or depletes. If you’re not appreciating your life, you’re definitely depreciating.

  • With time I have actually realized that we generally complain about all those things we have full control over. So, why can’t we just sort up the things and reach our desired point with the flavour of appreciating almost everything around us? Think about it.
  • Secondly, you need to stop lying to yourselves and be completely honest, or else you’ll never make a change. Being real requires you to be honest with yourself. Take a minute and ask yourself, how much real are you to yourself?
  • Most great things lie in simplicity, it’s we, the humans who have a habit of taking the most complex path and turn up the things even more difficult than it actually was. Have you ever heard of the word “Singular Thinking”? It’s basically focusing all of your life on a single thing which actually makes your whole life revolve around it and yeah, The Battle. Stop your singular thinking as it is only making you a victim and perhaps, the negative situation will only get X2 the size than it previously was.

Our character is not based on the absence of challenges nut on how well we handle ourselves in the face of them.

Normally, an individual tends to have around sixty thousand thoughts in a day. A person with a positive thought process can undergo any battle and still come out alive and as a person full of motivation and self-belief whereas, if we see a person with a negative mindset, his thought process will always favour his victimization and no self-control. Choose your stand wisely and if you’re on the wrong side, there is still time to get on the positive side but you know what? We are always scared that it might change our lives forever. Even if it’s in a positive way, we will still fear the unknown.

In order to win any battle, you must be equipped with the most powerful arsenal.

You have the ability to rewire yourself. The way you physically, mentally, and verbally act must change if you want to change, there is no other way through. I can just show you the path, rest the journey is yours. It’s your battle, you have to decide what you want the outcome to be at the end. We all thrive when challenged, and that’s what reconditioning yourself to find your truth is.

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Personal Development Tactics

Hey there, everyone!

I hope y’all are having a great weekend and must have planned and scheduled yourself for the upcoming week.

You know what? You’re capable of doing better, in fact, greater things. Not only this, you can actually go beyond the expectations and go far when the circumstances are right. Though, there are times when we actually feel ourselves to be lost, low in self-esteem but we need to get up, motivate ourselves and move on with our lives.

Personal Development Plan is simply a written plot or process based on awareness, goal-setting, reflection, values and rest of the strategies for self-development in terms of relationship, education, career or self-growth or self-improvement.

Some are struck incorporates living a stressful life, some are struggling to create booming stats with their side hustles, some are dying to make a change whereas some are not aware of what is happening to them. So, everyone has the same story yet different roles to play in different areas of life. But the golden and the most important rule is – Never quit or cheat your hustle!

Definitely, there are several situations in life which are tougher and more difficult apparently, to deal with. Unfortunately, we cannot change them but how about changing our own attitude towards them? Sounds good, yes?

It’s High Time, We Need to Give Attention to Personal Development!

 

It is simply because people know about personal development but they do not really know about its importance. Yes, this is where we lack in. It’s the right time to work on these small things and make yourself a better human in the society.

So, it’s your choice, you want to make yourself or break yourself?

So, my main motive of sharing these tactics is actually to lay a road or a blueprint as these factors have actually worked for me over time and I believe, they may be helpful to you as well. So, let’s find out why personal development is necessary.

  • Because It Helps You Understand Better – Have you ever come across a situation where you had two roads and you had to choose between one, and at the same moment, you felt yourself to be the most helpless person? This actually happens due to lack of motivation. This is simply because we haven’t set any specific goal and aren’t motivated to help understand ourselves better and making the best course of action.

Most of us underestimate the importance of understanding ourselves.

  • Because It Assists You With Your Life Goals – When you’re able to think better and wiser, you are eventually directed towards your life goals and purpose, having a clear vision of what you want in life.
  • Because It Ensures About Handling Stress – Now, this is one of the major aspects where personal development comes in. When you are following the personal development plan or self-development plan, you will realize that you are the controller of your life and only you are responsible for it. It ultimately, helps you manage your emotions, your thought process and the difficulties you’re facing.
  • It Teaches Flawless Time Management – Time is one of the chief aspects of life which you can either waste, spend or invest on. It is simple and linked to your life goals. When you know what to achieve, you know where to concentrate and spend your time on.

 

 

  • It Helps You Enjoy A Balanced Lifestyle – A peaceful life without any worries where you could handle your full-time job, maintain your work-out, diet, and social life altogether. What could be better than this? Yes, it is a bliss to have a balanced life like this one.

With a proper self-development plan, you will be able to manage your life flawlessly.

So, these were the few points which actually have proven to be vital on my journey and so advice you people to clarify your vision, configure all the essential resources required, Set a standard, Prioritize everything you do, and write your own legendary story!

The golden rule I have always followed in my life is – doing something. It’s not actually about being busy all the time but doing something actually means to channelize your potentials at one place and start something you would love to work on whether it may be writing, painting, drawing, fitness or any anything. Ensure to learn from your failure experiences, make your failure your best teacher and learn from it!

Focus on the positive side and take good care of yourself.

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Signing off from the today’s discussion. I’ll see you guys soon!

TA’DA