5 Outfit Ideas With White Sneakers

Yes, you can wear your white sneakers every single day. It doesn’t matter the season, the occasion or your outfit, white sneakers are always a good idea to watch out for. These are simple and basic, all season go wear, and can never fail you in your styling part. Every fashion conscious guy should have at least a couple of pairs of cool white sneakers.

 

 

Well, sneakers are actually ‘talk of the town’. Everybody is rushing onto buying cool and elegant pair of sneakers for everyday usage so thought of creating a content in which you guys can actually know how to team up your outfits with white sneakers.

No matter if you’re a seven day a week kind of sneaker guy or it’s more of once in a while, these outfit ideas will surely inspire you in your everyday routine.

So, let’s get started!

So, you must be wondering what type of outfits I’ll be going to talk about in the next segment. Well, we all have the knowledge but adultered to some extent. The outfits I’m going to talk about are very catchy, very elegant and are necessary for enhancing your style game.

 

  • ALL NEUTRALS – 

 

 

Exactly, what are neutral outfits? Having the same question in your head? So, these are the building blocks of any outfit and the colours included are Cream, Beige, Camel etc.

 

 

It’s all about complementing your colours in a good way. If you are able to understand the colour coordination, you can never go wrong in styling yourself.

With white sneakers in so much of trend lately, you can easily pair them up with these neutral colours to curate an effective pattern of fashion and styling.

 

  • CLASSIC NAVY AND BEIGE – 

 

 

Blue is one such colour which will always complement the neutral colour. Wearing Navy Blue / Light Blue / Dark Blue with any of the neutral colours like beige, camel or cream will always work in your favour. If you’re going around for a casual date or walk, team it up with a pair of white sneakers.

 

  • BOLD COLOURS – 

 

 

Bold colours are bright, eye-catching ones. These are made from primary colours and includes blue, red and yellow. These colours are full of life and personality. I’ll suggest you buy some V-neck or round neck basic t-shirts (whether half or full sleeve, according to your necessity), and well if you’re a college-going person or just simply out for a casual meeting, you can always go for this pair along with white sneakers.

 

  • COOL BLAZER AND TROUSERS MATCH –

 

 

Whether a checkered print blazer and trouser or any other match you may have in your wardrobe, always wearing oxford brogues or tassels or boots get a little boring. Try teaming up your blazer and trouser with a pair of white sneakers. Well, if you’re not a person who experiments too much, I’ll recommend you to try this once and of course, you can thank me later.

 

  • WHITE CREW NECK AND BLACK/BLUE DENIM – 

 

 

One of the most basic and the most elegant outfit one can ever create. I personally have a love for pieces of denim and pairing a white t-shirt is actually a bliss. Pairing your white sneakers with this will surely make it out to be a good idea and that’s how you can roll in these hot summers with ease.

 

  • DENIM ON DENIM – 

 

 

Did I just say, denim? First of all, buy denim clothes of fine quality so that it lasts longer than the usual clothes. Denim on Denim has to be the favourite and the most loved clothing apparel in both men’s and women’s wear.

Denim on Denim works on a very simple principle –  If your upperwear is dark, prefer wearing a light coloured jeans, chinos or whatever you feel like and vice versa. This is the most common mistake we usually make so try avoiding such mistakes. It’s all about styling yourself in an effective way and trust me, your fashion sense can actually influence many lives. So why not take the lead?

Mobiistar XQ Dual and CQ Smartphone

” Twinkle Twinkle, Selfie Star “

Vietnamese handset brand ‘Mobiistar’ has entered the Indian smartphone market earlier this week. Mobiistar is the leading brand in Vietnam and has the 2nd largest Facebook fan page in Vietnam.

Both new smartphones are first in the ‘Selfie Star’ Series that the Vietnamese company has brought to the Indian market to offer phones with enhanced selfies.

 

 

 

Mobiistar XQ Dual and CQ were launched in India, New Delhi on Wednesday at an event. Similar to many other handsets available in the market, the Vietnamese brand offers its customers a whole new level selfie experience with features like ‘Face Touch’ that will automatically create a touch up on your face and hence, brighten and soften the skin.

Both the Mobiistar models will go live tomorrow that is 30th May’18 only on Flipkart.

 

Price in India (XQ Dual and CQ) –

Mobiistar XQ Dual price in India has been set at Rs. 7999, while the CQ smartphone is all set to boom in the market at Rs. 4,999. Both will be available for purchase in Black and Gold colour options through Flipkart on May 30th, starting from 12 PM onwards.

Customers buying the new mobiistar models will get a guaranteed Rs.1,000 exchange offer in lieu of their old smartphones. Additionally, the smartphone comes with a complete Mobile Protection that covers both hardware and software related issues in addition to broken screen and liquid damage. All this will be available at a price of Rs. 99 and the service will be provided at your doorstep.

Moreover, the Mobiistar XQ Dual and CQ smartphone come under Reliance Jio ‘Jio Football Offer’ that makes customers receive a cashback of Rs.2,200 by recharging their Jio connections with Rs. 198 or Rs. 299 prepaid pack before 30th June, effectively.

 

Specifications (XQ DUAL and CQ) –

  • XQ DUAL – 

 

 

Mobiistar XQ Dual Smartphones comes up with a 3000 mAh battery and is available in two colours –  Black and Gold. Full touchscreen handset with a 5.5-inch display assures a 1.4GHz octa-core processor with Qualcomm Snapdragon 430 and a pixel size of 1080×1920 pixels.

RAM + Internal Storage – 3GB / 32GB

Expandable – Yes (Up to 128GB)

Expandable Storage Type –  MicroSD

Camera quality is one of the most looked out factor and XQ Dual comes up with a 13-megapixel rear camera, Rear LED Flash. Even the front or the selfie camera is of 13-megapixel and enabled with front LED Flash as well.

 

 

It is running on Android 7.1.2 operating system with easy Bluetooth and Wi-FI connectivity.

Number of SIM that can be introduced at the same time is 2. Both the SIM should be Nano-SIM and supports 4G/LTE.

 

  • CQ – 

 

 

Mobiistar CQ Smartphone comes up with a 3000 mAh battery and is available in two colours –  Black and Gold. Full touchscreen handset with a 5.00-inch display assures a quad-core processor with a resolution of 720×1280 pixels.

RAM + Internal Storage – 2GB / 16GB

Expandable – Yes (Up to 128GB)

Expandable Storage Type –  MicroSD

Camera quality is one of the most looked out factor and XQ Dual comes up with an 8-megapixel rear camera, Rear LED Flash. Even the front or the selfie camera is of 13-megapixel without LED Flash.

It is running on Android 7.1.2 operating system with easy Bluetooth and Wi-FI connectivity.

Number of SIM that can be introduced at the same time is 2. Both the SIM should be Nano-SIM and supports 4G/LTE.

 

“With our aim to make the selfie experience and technology more accessible to users without having to compromise, we focused on developing products with salient features and a selfie camera that will ensure fine picture quality – all available at a compelling value,” said Carl Ngo, co-founder and CEO, Mobiistar.

Both the new Mobiistar models will go on sale in India exclusively via Flipkart on May 30th, that is tomorrow from 12 PM onwards.

 

10 Clothing Summer Staples For Women

Okay, so this is the 2nd edition to my summer essentials and this blog post will be totally focusing on the women’s wear and apparels and perhaps, what to have in your wardrobe for this summer.

So, let’s get started, yeah?

 

 

While we all love trends, no wardrobe is complete without essentials and exactly how can you define what is essential to you? Every person has a different definition of it but if you ask me, these are the items that you turn to it in order to create almost every outfit.

From a plain white t-shirt to a denim jacket, I have made a list of some few essentials, every woman needs to have in their closet so as to enhance their summer game to a whole new level.

 

  • White T-shirt – Though, it’s the most standard and basic piece in clothing but when used correctly can actually enhance your overall look and trust me, it is one of the most versatile pieces of cloth. Team it up with a maxi dress, a patterned skirt or whatever you might think of but you can never go wrong with this staple piece.

 

 

  • Denim Jacket – Who said layering can just be done in winters? Team up your denim jackets as these are just perfect for mornings and evenings, the classic design will keep you warm even if the temperature drops. Denim over denim is one such look I personally like in both men’s wear as well as women’s wear.

 

 

  • Two Strap Sandals – Nobody likes sweaty feet in summers. This is the best time to ditch your classic shoes and rather go for these two strap sandals, instead. Not only will the open style keep your feet from overheating but it will elongate the appearance of your legs.

 

 

  • White Shirt – A white buttoned-up shirt is another versatile summer essential. Rather than just wearing shirts in the formal events, girls should focus on wearing them in the normal routine as well. It can be worn with jeans, shorts, skirts, and under the dress.

 

 

 

  • Shirt Dress – Whether you’re heading into the office, out for evening drinks a shirt dress makes an excellent outfit choice. The chic and simple style is perfect for keeping you feeling cool and effortlessly elegant.

 

 

  • Midi Skirt – Forget the mini, summer’s new staple is the midi. A midi skirt is typically supposed to be worn at mid-calf length. This skirt is totally style chic and flattering, cool and comfy to wear in summers especially.

 

 

  • White Sneakers – Shop for plain white sneakers and vibe in them. These are trendy, minimalistic and is a must-have footwear style and is perfect for both busy as well as lazy weekends.

 

 

  • Denim Shorts – Want to show off your legs in summers? Go for denim shorts. Try teaming it up with a casual tee and sneakers to end up being on a cute casual look or even luxe, according to the need.

 

 

  • Ballet Flats – Ballet flats are a great footwear style for summers. This comfy shoes can be worn easily with jeans or pants or it can with a shirt or a dress.

 

 

  • Maxi Dress – It’s already so hot outside and it’s just may right now so what to wear to beat this heat? It’s no wonder that maxi dress is the favourite summer style. Long, Billowy, breezy – maxi is everything you need to beat this summer heat. 

 

 

  • The Perfect Sunglasses – There’s no better way to finish off a stylish summer outfit than with some sleek shades. So, whether you rock a classic pair of aviators or look chic in a cat eye design, embrace your personal version of the perfect sunglasses with pride.

 

 


 

10 Clothing Summer Staples For Men

So, now that we are in the summer months, you must be wondering what to wear in this hot season which is exactly comfortable to wear and fits a bit proper – not so tight and not so loose as well. I wanted to cover a few must-haves for summer wardrobe that will have you looking awesomely stylish without breaking the blank.

In a country like India, we need to break this stereotype that if you totally wear branded clothes, only and only then you’ll be considered a fashionable person which I think is not. Being a fashion advisor, I’ll suggest you to have different pieces of cloth so that it gets easier for you to ‘mix and match’ your clothes and curate a different and presentable look and trust me, it’s okay to wear clothes which are not that expensive. You should have your main focus on styling yourself well and only that matters.

So, I have prepared a list of top favourite picks which I’ll suggest you guys shop for so as to expand your summer wardrobe.

 

  • Sunglasses – Sunglasses are a must-have in these summers so as it not only protects your eyes but when coordinated well with the outfit, adds elegance to the overall look. Shop for a pair of sunglasses which suits your face and budget.

 

 

  • T-shirts –

Not having proper and desired knowledge about the cloth type and measurements can actually downgrade your wardrobe. First of all, know your measurements well like I wear a size ‘M’. Some other person may be wearing a size ‘L’. When picking up any tee, don’t forget to check out for the washing tips as different clothes have different washing procedures.

 

 

If you ask me what to wear in summers, I’ll recommend you to go for Basic Tees, Abstract Prints, Horizontal or Vertical lines T-shirts, Patches tees, Polo T-shirts and OCBD (Oxford Cloth Button Down). Polo T-shirts and OCBD are almost similar and the only difference lies is in the buttoned segment present at the neck in OCBT whereas polo tees just have a winged collar.

 

 

The most important tip I would like to give you all is that, next time you shop for t-shirts, make sure that if you’re wearing a round neck tee, the segment of cloth should be close to the neck. Closer it is to your neck, the better the fit is.

 

 

The men’s with shorter height should generally go with vertical line tees as they look taller and the ones with less weight should wear horizontal lines as it makes them look broader.

 

  • Khakhi Shorts – Wearing jeans, trousers, chinos in summers can be very uncomfortable so, go for some khaki shorts. They end above or on your knees and are the workhorse of the summer. A lot of shopping websites have quirky and amazing designs in printed, florals and basic designs so, shop your preferred ones for your wardrobe.

 

 

  • Coloured Chinos – When it comes to men’s pants, chinos are undoubtedly an essential style. As versatile as they are fashionable, these trousers are a must-have for every man. Not just for the casual looks, but they can be worn with formal shirts making them a fantastic item to own.Colour is important but the key is to pull off the chinos. Do you need a tip? Try chinos on and see how they complement your build and height. Chinos should never be too long.

 

 

  • Lightweight belt – With shorts and summer chinos, you don’t want a heavy leather belt because they are probably designed for jeans. Try going for a lightweight belt so that you don’t feel stuck up in your stomach region. Go for a black and brown/Tan belt as they coordinate with any outfit and usually blend in with any type of colour.Purchase a heavyweight belt for a formal attire and a lightweight one for a semi-formal or casual attire.

 

  • Boat Shoes – They are cosy and comfortable to wear in summers. Pair them with a polo t-shirt and khaki pants and walk the carpet in style. Don’t be one of those guys that wears them with visible socks though. Either go barefoot or if you have sweaty feet, get some no-show socks.

 

 

  • Sneakers – Sneakers are just called as the New Sandals. These are the shoes primarily designed for sports or other forms of physical exercise but are often worn in everyday use. Try having different colours – white being the most trendy and most stylish. The best shopping websites to buy sneakers according to me, are Ajio, Koovs, Myntra.

 

 

  • The Fitted Short Sleeve Shirt – There’s an absurdly false rule that you should never a short sleeve buttoned shirt. As with everything goes, all that matters is your honing on in the fit. If you’re a loose skinny guy, go for a full sleeve shirt as it curtains up your skinny body and if you’re a man with a build, go for these half sleeves buttoned shirt. Pair them with your khaki shorts and tassel loafers and let the eyes roll.

 

 

 

  • Colognes – Smelling good in summers take a little extra effort, I mean it’s hot out there and you’re sweaty, but a solid fragrance is a great way to overcome the odds in your favour. Lighten up your fragrance arsenal with light, fresh scents that’ll last all summer long.

 


 

And, that’s all for today. Thank you for stopping by until the end. Will be writing on ‘ 10 Summer Clothing Staples For Women’ in the next blog post.

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TA’DA

How To Become The Best Version Of Yourself?

You are here in this world for three main reasons. The first one is to experience as many different things as possible and enjoy life to the full. The second one is to create, contribute, share, and leave a positive legacy behind.

And the third reason why you’re here on this planet is to improve, evolve, grow and become the best version of yourself.

 

 

Another day, another blog post and another story which might trail down to motivate you in some way or the other.

Before sleeping and after waking up, do ask this question to yourself that ‘what kind of person do you want to be?’

I mean everybody wants to be rich, wants to have a good lifestyle and most importantly ‘have it all’.

With time, I have noticed three ugly qualities that resist a human to become his/her best version and that is –

  • Greed
  • Vanity
  • Addiction

 

  • Having It All –

I have actually come across people who have a tendency of equating their success with ‘having it all’, but this can end up a slippery slope. The appetite for success develops into greed.

 

 

I have met many bloggers and influencers who were unhappy, negative people. It surprised me because It looked like they had it all. But deep down they hadn’t done the work of figuring out what kind of person they wanted to be.

Let me ask you the same question again, What kind of person do you want to be? 

  • Vanity –

Living in a culture of entertainment and celebrities, a lot of people succumb to vanity. I mean we all want to look good, isn’t it?

 

 

Recently, I was just passing from a gym and saw a man with a good built, shaved legs and ripped. I don’t know but after having all that which we humans consider as ‘perfect’, I found that man to be very unhappy. You know what the problem is? We spend an enormous amount of time, energy and money in improving our looks and developing our character.

Becoming the best version of yourself is far away from just sculpted muscles, waxed chests and whitened teeth. It requires intellectual enrichment, empathy, sacrifice for others and the most important quality – Kindness!

 

  • All things in Moderation –

 

 

Perhaps, more than vanity and greed, addiction account for the grief in most people lives. The problem is that we like some things way too much. We pursue them at all costs and become addicted.

Living in a country like India where addictions are just accounted for drinking alcohol and sexual misbehaviour, there are so many other addictions out there which are neglected –  Social media addiction, food addiction, addiction to drama, even healthy pursuits like fitness can become a destructive addiction.

 

 

Addictions can be treated. Simply ask yourself what kind of person you want to be? The answer will come to you and then what? Begin the process right away. You can always make changes and become the best version.

No matter who you’re, no matter what you did, no matter where you’ve come from, you can always change and become a better version of yourself!


That’s all for today. You can write me down on arpitpahwa4@gmail.com or can easily connect with me on any of my social handles given in the right-hand sidebar.

Thank you for stopping by until the end.

Don’t forget to add value to others as they’ll come back when the time comes.

Have a great week, ahead!

See you in the next one!

TA’DA

 

 

What I Do When I Can’t Focus

Are you struggling to finish your tasks? Are you always distracted by notifications, gossiping, or anything that’s random?

 

 

In that case, you and I are alike. And you know what? Focusing on a single thing is probably one of the hardest things at work.

There’s always something that interrupts you, right?

  • Another person
  • A phone call
  • A meeting
  • A false emergency

Sure, you can blame on these things but that’s weak. You and I, we both know that things can’t interrupt you without your permission. And that simply means that every time you’re not focused, you’re simply giving someone or something the permission to invade your mind.

Scary, isn’t it?

Your life will never benefit just by looking at Instagram or Facebook, watching useless Youtube videos and reading negative articles.

 

 

So, what can you do to improve your focus? Here, are 2 things that I always do when I find myself not being able to focus on what really matters to me.

  • ELIMINATE – 

Every day, we accumulate stuff. We accumulate ideas. It’s the human tendency to make the ideas which are exposed openly as their own. Funny, isn’t it? Have you ever thought about that?

 

 

Okay, so let me take up my own example here. Being a writer, I constantly observe so many things around me on a regular basis. People actually come up and give me n number of ideas which I actually appreciate and one such idea was of starting a YouTube Channel. I built the strategy, I worked on creating a model for it. But there was just problem –  It consumes too much of my time and attention and as a consequence of it, I have to spend less time on writing and creating new articles. I thought of doing only that thing in which my time was fruitfully strategized and organized and that’s how eliminating comes into place. Eliminating is a key strategy that I use in many aspects of my life and so want you to focus on.

It’s important to figure out what you need to eliminate from your lives to make it completely organized, simple and that it’s easy to focus on?

If you’re struggling with focusing your mind on a single thing, try this strategy. Make your life simple and that’s a breeze to live.

  •  THINK ABOUT YOUR PAST SUCCESS- 

 

 

So, 2017 was actually the best year of my life as my passion for working as a writer came into existence and that’s how I started with my own blogging website. It’s never easy to step forward and take critics and that’s what helped me to grow – as a person and as a writer. The life of a blogger starts with the booming stats in the first six months but what after a year or so when the audience gets bored with your creative content? That’s where you have to start with your next strategy!

All you need to do is remember all those positive events that happened in the past. That’s a strategy to overcome your cold phases and runs a stream of positive energy levels in your blood.

Have you ever heard of the neurotransmitter, Serotonin? Serotonin is present on the right side of the brain and is responsible for all your emotional and creative nature. To improve your focus, boost your serotonin activity. When serotonin goes up, your focus goes up. Ultimately, that’s what you should do.

When I can’t focus, the first thing I do is acknowledge the problem and the solution required to correct that problem. Some people go through life without even acknowledging they have problems.

Focus on your life. Think about what matters to you. Do those things and don’t get distracted. Learn to stay on the path!

From The Parallel Edit & Team, I’ll see you in the next one!

TA’DA

 

 

 

Inner Peace Is The New Success!

 Happiness is the new rich. Inner peace is a new success. Health is a new wealth. Kindness is the new cool!

 

Unflappable? That is such a wonderfully descriptive word. A person is said to be unflappable if he/she potentially has or shows calmness in a situation of crisis. I have known some truly unflappable people. They discharge an inner calmness even in the hardest circumstances. They are the ones who are fully present with everyone, gentle and possess a positive attitude towards life.

 

 

So many of us exist in a cloud of internal and external chaos.

With such an over-scheduled and preoccupied lifestyle, it is difficult to relax and enjoy life with all of the distractions and cold phases.

 

What is meant by Inner Peace?

 

 

Inner peace is more about being than doing. It’s all about learning to correct and not struggling against. It’s about being focused in the present and not dwelling in the chapters of the past or the dreams of the future. The rewards of inner peace are numerous. It all includes mental and physical well being of an individual, self-confidence and more intense and more joyful experience.

 

How to attain Inner Peace?

 

 

  • Have nothing unresolved –

Resolving your professional and personal matters are necessary as it withdraws energy gets you numb and broken. It’s better to make short-term schedules and keep the things sorted.

 

  • Surrender and accept what it is –

Accepting your failures are much more important than enjoying your success. The one who surrenders and accepts will never make the same mistake again. Rather than resisting and fighting, stop struggling. Resisting blocks energy and creativity.

 

  • Take full responsibility for how you react to others –

You choose your behaviour and you decide what you want to be in all circumstances. Plan for being a calm and unflappable person.

 

  • Become aware of and sensitive to feelings rather than ignoring them –

These feelings can turn out to be a big gut vibes in your day to day and even in your business. Never ignore these feelings as it might turn your struggle into the fortune. Be aware of what’s running inside your head. Become aware of your internal environment.

 

  • Know your higher self –

The only person who knows what you’re capable of doing, capable of producing is just you. Know your goals, understand them, implement what’s necessary at the right time and at the right moment.

 

  • Prioritize peace ahead of performance –

Setting up our priority list is what we all have been doing after puberty but how about keeping ‘peace’ in the first place? Try and find out yourself!

 

How can Inner Peace lead us to a successful life?

 

 

We all are running in the quest for a happy life which is full of freedom and security. The search for happiness and a successful life is one of the most common goals to everyone. Life is full of challenges. For an instance, rather than thinking of them as a reason to give up just think of them as a source of knowledge and experience. Failures teach us more than what success could. With experience comes wisdom, more positivity towards achieving something, stability and productivity automatically enhances.

With inner peace comes Introspection, self-control and self-improvement. Introspection is having a knowledge of your own thoughts and emotions. Introspection is like a lantern, it might provide light, but it doesn’t guarantee to make you see the things.

There are no limits. All you have to keep in mind is to control your mind from all the negativity trying to attack you.

Self-Improvement is what means to build yourself, to train your mind and improve and nourish your character and attitude towards living.

With a peaceful mind, the success rate automatically doubles.

 

Few tips and tricks for lasting happiness!

 

 

If you do any or all of these things a little more often than you currently do, yes you can find your life to be less stressful, more meaningful, happier, wealthier and healthier.

How much? Depends on how often you do them. Maybe 5% or 5000%?

Let’s find out what they are –

  • Schedule time to hang out with your 5-15 best friends.
  • Say ‘thank you’ literally everytime you think you should.
  • Help people achieve their goals.
  • Every six months make sure to identify what you’d like to do in the next six months or so.
  • Eat food that you love to eat.
  • Do things you enjoy doing.
  • Schedule something to look forward to.
  • Exercise
  • Document your progress.
  • Keep in regular touch with your close friends.
  • Worship or meditate or practice yoga.
  • At night, write down one thing you’d like to do the next day.
  • Try new things.
  • Be kind to others.
  • Forgive people.
  • Celebrate others success.
  • Reward yourself for every small milestone achievement.

These were the few practical tricks you can do to everlasting happiness.


Thank you for 5k views on my website. Couldn’t have asked for more! To each and everyone reading this post, Thank you for believing in me, always!

Signing off from this post,

Like I always say, from The Parallel Edit & Team, I’ll see you in the next one!

TA’DA

 

 

 

 

The Dreamer!

It all starts with an ambition to do something, that hungriness to do something big. It all starts with a dream, a dream full of vision and outcomes. There are many talented people who haven’t fulfilled their dreams because they over thought it or were too cautious about the audacity and ultimately unwilling to make that leap of faith. Are you feeling something relatable?

 

 

When I meet people, I can often figure out whether the person is going to do something or just flirting with the idea. Those who carry their idea to execution are actually the ones who are single-mindedly focused on creating it. You and only you know when the idea will be ripe and when do you have to eat it. A half-baked cake will never be as tasty as a hot chocolate fudge provided, you need to have patience when you’re working on your dreams. No successful person has achieved fame and wealth overnight.

 

 

What do you actually mean by a desire and a dream? Dr Abdul Kalam has very well quoted “ A dream is not something which you see while sleeping but it is something which doesn’t allow you to sleep!”.

Remember,

Your Desire for Success    >    Your Fear of Failure

Life is all about living up to one’s desires and dreams and I believe in everyone having a dream, no matter small or big. True education is something which can be helpful in differentiating between the two of them.

A Game Between A Dream And A Desire!

  • A desire is like a craving and dream is like hunger. Cravings can be changed at a time but a dream? Can only be sated upon fulfilment.

 

  • A desire can make a person selfish whereas dreams will build ideas, processes and even organizations.

 

  • A desire is all about yourself but a dream is something which expands your vision over the idea of changing yourself and the ones surrounding you.

 

 

BE A DREAMER!

Be a dreamer.

See all the beauty despite the outcomes it may lead you. The joy in every single move.

Be a dreamer.

Reach out for the impossible, the illusions you get when you’re alone. Turn them into reality as this is the only time you have got to play.

Be a dreamer.

Live out the opportunities. Be a dreamer and see the world as it should be. ALIVE AND VIBRANT!

Be a dreamer.

Be surprised with our own results. Dream the moment and build the life of a free soul. Unrestrained, glorious and massive!

Be a dreamer.

Paint the colour of your dreams as your life is a canvas. Be a dreamer!

 

And, I just want to conclude here by saying that If you don’t want the next 10 Years to be like the last then now is the time to do something different!

Work now and live the rest of your life like a champion!

We have officially crossed 5k+ views with this blog post. Thank you so much to each and everyone who have been loving my content.

See you in the next one, people!

TA’DA

 

 

 

Overcome Overthinking!

Drifting away with the wind, blown up by the immense stress, unaware of what’s happening around, mind block getting down on your veins, things not rolling into your place and that’s how I can sum up the life of our adults – broke, unstable and insatiable!

 

 

Overthinking and anxiety go hand in hand. It can stop you from enjoying your social events, disturb your sleep, undermine your job performance and what not so typically, overthinking can make you leave not only mentally disturbed but exhausted. Trust me, it can actually get your walls down. So, this blog post is for all those who have a habit of overthinking and constant anxiety issues.

What is Overthinking?

 

 

Overthinking is actually “under-thinking”. It is basically the repetition of obsessive, non- productive thoughts that are likely to be bothering you and often, overthinking is the result of a combination of issues that haven’t been fully analyzed. Over-thinking triggers worry – worry destroys your capacity to take and stick by your decisions. Over-thinking leads to increased circulation of blood throughout the brain and body – this leads to an Inability to relax, easily angered and always feeling something bad/wrong is going to happen.

 

Stop Overthinking. Negativity lives there!

 

What are the Symptoms and Signs of Overthinking and Anxiety –

  • You can’t sleep.
  • You self- medicate.
  • You’re always tired.
  • You want to control everything.
  • You obsess about failure.
  • You don’t trust your own judgement.
  • You get tension headaches.

 

 

How can you tackle them?

  • Awareness is the beginning of change.

 

 

Being aware of what’s happening inside and outside of you is necessary. People often tend to confuse between sadness and being depressed. If you know what’s going on with you, this means you’re sad and not depressed. So, on the primary importance talk to yourself, and find out what’s going wrong in the system. Any time you find yourself doubting or feeling stressed or anxious without any reason, step back and look at the moment on how you’re responding.

Awareness is the seed of the change you want to make!

 

  • Don’t think of what can go wrong but think of what can go right.

A single emotion, fear has the power to turn your most beautiful frames to disasters. If you’re focusing on all the negative things that might happen to you if you have actually made it easy for you to become paralyzed of the situation.  Just stop!

Visualize all those things that can go in your favour and look forward to a good time awaiting you!

 

 

  • Swirl yourself into happiness.

Being happy and spreading love and happiness will not only give you strength to fight but also the power to stand in those tough times. Be a happy yet dope soul. Spend time on things like meditation, in your hobbies and trust me, this will distance you from all those issues enough to get you mad.

 

  • Change your view of fear.

With deep fear comes deep anxiety. I have observed people being in fear about exams, about their interviews and you know what’s the only thing common in each and everyone? Prediction of the outcome even before the deed was done. Funny, isn’t it?

Remember every opportunity is a new beginning, a place to start again!

 

  • Accept your best.

Not accepting what you are capable of might lead you to unwanted destinations. The fear that grounds overthinking is often based on the feeling that you’re not good enough, or smart enough or hardworking enough. Once you’ve given an effort, accept it as look forward to the results. Don’t stress too much as the results are not in your control so why worry? You have already done what you could do.

Above given were the best five tips from my side and trust me, these have worked for me and will surely work for you as well provided you work.

Your Future Is Calling, Go There And Live Your Life On Your Own Terms!

That’s all for today. Thank you for staying until the end and don’t forget to share with your friends, your family etc.

Will see you in the next one, people!

TA’DA

 

 

Follow The Calling; Not The Crowd!

Hey there, people! Sorry was not able to put up any post due to my hectic schedule. Almost an end to this month as well so are you guys working on improving yourself? If not, start because it’s never too late.

 

 

Follow the calling, not the crowd. Yes, you heard it right! Intuition has always played the most decisive role in the making or breaking of an individual. It’s your intuition that can eventually take you to places but the only condition lies is the ability of the person to trust upon his gut feelings and accordingly produce the desired action. It is therefore very important to learn how to listen to and trust your gut.

The quirky urge, a funny tingle, that little voice in your head. These are your gut feelings talking to you but the question is, what are they telling you? Should you listen to them? And.. the answer is a BIG YES!

These messages which you get from inside can be just silent warnings or reminders and in retrospect, may be right or even wrong. But you must be wondering why I’m quoting a lesson on intuitions?

 

Credits: https://www.lebe-deine-berufung.de/en/about-2/follow-your-calling/

 

Probably in a year like 2018 where you have that freedom to turn up your passion into your business, you should know how much your intuitions will help you in raising the bar to generate more income than you could have ever earned. With n number of career options prevailing you must choose to act on the calling you’re destined for and not choose what everyone else is heading to.

You don’t have to worry about what others are planning to choose as their careers neither should you rely on anyone. Surround yourself with people who are so keen on expanding businesses, or in short be friends with the motivated ones. If you’re still unaware of your own self, it’s better to join some programs, talk to yourself and spend some quality time in figuring out what are you actually destined for. It’s the right time to begin the process!

Students out in stress about their career plans tend to follow someone else dreams. You don’t have to worry about what others are planning but rather you should focus your energy and time on realizing what you’re capable of doing and producing. Think about all the good times you want from your life. Believe me, life is very beautiful out there and yet challenging. You just have to wait for your turn and burn the bridge down.

 

Credits: https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/making-move-follow-my-calling-jim-schoettle

 

It’s your journey, It’s your hard work, It’s just you at the end who has to finish being productive. Follow your calling, believe in what you have got and if you’re risky enough, try to opt for something which you actually love and not like.

So, ending up with this note – It’s great when things happen the way you plan but you also need to open to all those things unfolding in their own way.

Have a great weekend, y’all!

See you in the next post till then keep smiling and keep reading!

TA’D